Friend Of Sinners

Just the other day (October 28, 2011) a former youth pastor at a large church in south Florida was sentenced to 28 years, 10 months in prison for sexual misconduct with a member of the youth group.  He was 28 and she was 14 at the time of the crime.

This man did a terrible thing, deserving of punishment. I make no comment on any part of the case or the sentence.

What I do wish to mention is this statement from the corresponding newspaper article: [The senior pastor] said the church has had no direct contact with [the former youth pastor] since his arrest in November 2009, focusing its attention on helping the victim.

Certainly the victim and her family have needed, and will continue to need much help and care from their church community.  But in a congregation of nearly 7,000, couldn’t someone be designated to support the young man involved?  The absence of this seems tragic.

Jesus was called the friend of sinners.  It was a title spit out in contempt by religious people who viewed involvement with reprobates as guilt by association, a soft stance on the law, and bad politics … perhaps similar to thoughts going through the minds of the leaders in the church mentioned above.

I’ve been a victim of sinful acts a few times, and I’ve known some who’ve been the injured party as well.  Thank God and His people for being there at those moments of need.  The instances in which I’ve been a sinner, however, outnumber any other situation a million to one. Fortunately a few humans, and one God who took the form of man, remain my friend.

 

Love You To Death

Is it proper to celebrate when my enemy Is killed?  Or is it more appropriate to accept that the act had to occur, but mourn?

As I write this, the lives of three world-known tyrants have been taken in the past five years.  Each time there has been dancing in the streets.  Controversy soon followed between those who felt the reaction was called for, versus the view that rejoicing over any death – even a justified one – makes the rejoicers little better than the person who had to die.

I look to the Bible for answers.  There I find that the children of Israel danced and sang when the Egyptian army drowned in the Red Sea.  The song gave praise to God, but it was a party in the presence of Egyptian dead bodies, nonetheless. Jesus told us to love our enemies.  Is it possible to love a despot, and be pleased about his or her demise at the same time?  To human reasoning this is difficult, but it might make sense at some spiritual level.

Scripture gives a bit more insight as to the state of mind of the Hebrew people after their enemies were destroyed.  It says: When Israel saw the great power that the Lord used against the Egyptians, the people feared the Lord and believed in Him. Perhaps fearing and believing in the Lord are the safest reactions I can have when faced with a complex situation like this one.  There are no simple answers.

Vague On Purpose

People complain that God is often vague about what He does.  Perhaps He’s like that intentionally.  Maybe there’s a bigger picture in His mind.

God is supremely interested in having a relationship with each human, individually.  If all His dealings with us were cookie-cutter and predictable, the interactions would be static and dry.

To one, He grants that good fortune and allows this trial.  To another person, it’s the opposite.  Both say “Why, God?” and seek Him for answers.  Exactly what He wanted.  And even when the requests are filled with emotion of all types, that’s OK with God.  Nothing is off limits … that’s just the kind of friend He is.

Many scripture passages point to this truth.  We read that “His ways are higher than our ways,” and “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter.”  We’re also told that we will find God when we seek Him with all our hearts.  Personally, I may never get there in this lifetime, but it’s a great promise nonetheless.

It would be wonderful to have God figured out, to know exactly why He does everything He does.  He’s chosen not to allow that, however, opting instead for a fluid one-on-One dialogue, which He prefers.  And to accomplish that, He’s sometimes vague on purpose.

 

Harvest Time

One of the gospels tell us that The Kingdom of God can be compared to what happens when a man scatters seed on the ground. A plant grows, eventually yielding ripe grain.  Then, we’re told “As soon as the crop is ready, he sends for the sickle, because harvest has come.”

The time it takes for a seed to become a fruit-bearing tree or plant can be long.  Once the fruit appears, however, it’s harvested right away.  Life in general acts similarly.

Much of what God has taught me on the spiritual journey has taken years to learn.  He’s very patient in that way.  When the lesson is complete, God’s pace quickens considerably.  Before long, some situation comes up in my own life or someone else’s, requiring me to engage that very understanding … not in words, but in compassion and acceptance.

The Kingdom Of God is about producing fruit in individuals.  Scripture gives us the names of the crops: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self control.  People everywhere are starving for just those things, so no matter how long it takes for the crop to grow, harvest time comes quickly … just as soon as the crop is ready.

Un-Sweet Persuasion

One of the great promises in the Bible is the apostle Paul’s declaration that nothing can separate us from the love of God.  This verse has made its way to countless songs, sermons and devotionals.  It is indeed a very comforting thought.

Looking closely at that part of scripture reveals something interesting.  The writer specifically lists some things that God’s love overcomes, including affliction, anguish, persecution, famine, nakedness, and danger of death.  He then says “I am persuaded…” that none of these (and other things) have the power to separate us from God’s love.

To say “I am persuaded” means that the realization wasn’t there from the beginning.  Somehow this truth became concrete to Paul through a process.  And any Bible student knows exactly what that was in the apostle’s life.  The book of Acts tells us that Paul faced the very challenges he listed: affliction, anguish, persecution, and the like.

God’s inseparable love for me is a fact.  But sometimes I have to be convinced.  His method for accomplishing that is to put me in a situation and love me through it.  It’s not always sweet, but it gets the job done.  Eventually, I’m persuaded.

 

Jesus, Party Animal

A famous portion of scripture is the one where Jesus proclaims: For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them. I wish I could have been on the scene when the Lord said that, to catch the tone in His voice.

Most of the sermons and teachings I’ve heard on this verse have been solemn and lofty.   They portray something mystical.  But I wonder if that’s really what Jesus had in mind or if He was simply giving us a glimpse of how much He loves being with His people … like the college student who tells his friends, “Whenever you guys get together, I’m there!”

No doubt this scripture is a great promise with deep meaning.  Pesonally I love it.  It shows me that Jesus is a party animal.  So let’s have a party.

September 11

There are a few days in the history of the world that have changed life for all Earth’s inhabitants forever.  Today is one of them.  Anyone reading this knows the many stories and all their ramifications only too well.

September 11 is holy ground.  I cannot bring myself to walk on it – even barefoot – by writing anything more than that.  Sometimes when you don’t know what to say it is best not to say anything.

Thanks For Nothing

A lot of things didn’t happen in my life this week.  I didn’t get in an accident, break any bones, or receive a troubling diagnosis.  I didn’t fight with my wife, damage friendships, lay awake worrying (too much), or even misplace my car keys.  In many respects, it was a nothing week.

Jesus met with a group of people in a house one day.  We don’t know the exact number who were there, but the Bible does tell us it was standing room only.  In the midst of the gathering, He healed a man of paralysis.  The question pops into my mind: “How many people at this get-together realized that they received a miracle?”

Certainly the man who walked for the first time experienced something miraculous.  But what about all the ones who got zilch?  Did they understand just how fortunate they were?

In this life, which is often filled with trials and disappointments, nothing can be a very welcomed change of pace and a true divine gift.  So today, my prayer to God is simple … Thanks for nothing.

Joy And Consideration

I worry too much.  And while I tell myself that this helps me avoid a lot of negative situations (there might be a little truth to that), the bigger truth is that most of my fears never come to pass.

Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, said some things that apply.  He starts out with “In the day of prosperity, be joyful.”  I need to do that more.  Instead, when good things happen, I usually fret that something bad is right around the corner.  Interestingly, the Bible does not ignore this possibility, but speaks to it directly in the very next words from Solomon’s pen: “But in the day of adversity, consider.”

Adversity does cause me to consider.  It makes me slow down and ponder many deep things of life.  I mull over topics like how fortunate I am, how meaningless are the bulk of my concerns, the value of people with whom I share life, the facets of this existence that truly matter vs. those that don’t, etc.  At times, the contemplation even reveals ways to navigate through complex issues.

Just enjoying good times, rather than over-thinking them … and using the rough patches to lead me into quiet reflection.  After all, “God has made the one as well as the other,” just like Solomon said.  Sounds like a peaceful way to live.

 

What’s The Rush?

Jesus was good friends with a family comprised of three siblings – Mary, Martha, and their brother Lazarus.  Scripture tells us that Jesus had a special love for each one and hung out in their home.  Likewise, they were generous with hospitality and gifts.

When Lazarus came down with a life-threatening illness, the sisters sent word to Jesus.  The Lord’s reaction seems odd … “So, when Jesus heard that Lazarus was sick, He stayed two more days in the place where He was.”  I’ve often wondered why Jesus didn’t drop everything and rush to His friend’s side.  Isn’t that what a true companion would do?

Even worse, Lazarus died.  Of course the rest of the story is that after Jesus finally got there, He called on God and Lazarus came back to life.  OK … Jesus held the trump card.  Maybe that had something to do with His strange initial response.

Knowing that the situation is under control in the hands of One who is supremely powerful definitely takes the crazy urgency out of the equation.  Getting to this realization, however, requires that I spend time in quiet, reflecting on the smallness of even my greatest problem in light of who God is.  I’ve got to constantly work on that.

Will this insight cause me to trade in my often chaotic pace for a calm, serene life of saying “What’s the rush”?  Well, I’m probably not there yet, but maybe I’ve gained a little perspective.




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